Get a Girl

Let’s get right down to the point. You want to know how to get a girl’s phone number. Maybe there’s even a particular cutie you’ve had your eye on for a while but you don’t want to mess it up, or maybe you just want to approach random women at the mall or the super market. Believe me, I struggled with what to say to a woman on the initial approach for years, but getting her number can be the easiest part when you know what to do. My life first changed in that regard when I stumbled upon the advice of the great David DeAngelo.

In this article I’m going to tell you about a technique so powerful that it has let me get so many numbers from girls that I was never able to call most of them.

Before I tell you the technique, you first need to understand that getting a phone number is not necessarily all it’s cracked up to be. Even if you get a girl’s phone number, it may end up doing you no good if you don’t know the proper way to communicate and build instant attraction with her. In fact, there are tricks that are much more powerful than the topic of the article, and I’ll tell you about how you can get your hands on some of those a little bit later.

There are two goals to keep in mind when trying to get a girl’s phone number.

One of those is that you have to come across as different from the many guys who approach her all the time. The other is that you must make her as comfortable as possible. Men can be very threatening and creepy to women, so for her to give up her personal information to you entails that she is comfortable. This isn’t as hard as you might think.

The first step is to approach the women very cool, calm, and collected. Nervousness repels women like garlic. If you have problems with confidence around women, then make sure to check out the resource at the end of my article.

Once you’ve made the approach, start off the conversation by slyly observing your surroundings and making a joke about something she is doing or something around you. Once again, if you need help knowing exactly what to say when approaching a woman, I’ll give that to you at the bottom of the article, but for now I want to stick to the topic at hand.

Try and keep up the conversation for a few minutes, indicate that you have to go. Letting her know that you have something to go and do is very important, because it sets you apart from most guys who will stick around a girl like he’s glued to her, and force her to be the one to end the conversation. If you end it first, she will be left wondering about you for the rest of the day.

As you’re getting ready to leave, tell her that it was nice meeting her, and then, almost as an afterthought, turn around and ask very calmly if she has email.

I know that it’s her phone number you want, not just e-mail, but trust me, this works, period.

Everyone has e-mail these days, and almost everyone feels very comfortable giving it out. That’s where the psychology comes into play. Give her the pen to write her e-mail down (bonus tip: buy a really cool pen that will attract her attention and start more conversation) and while she’s writing it, ask her to write her number down as well.

This works instantly about 8 out of 10 times, because a woman who is already giving you her e-mail will usually not hesitate to also include her phone number. Had you asked for the phone number right off the bat, she would have been less comfortable giving it to you.

If it doesn’t work instantly, then just assure her that it’ll be alright, because you’re only going to call her 30000 times (this is a joke, and will ease her mind). She will usually then give it to you without another seconds hesitation.

In this article, I would like to share three creative ways to get the girl to say yes and get the date. First things first, ensure you are looking your best and have thoroughly given yourself the “old once over”, there is nothing worse than turning up shoddy to a first date.

In order to think outside of the box, I would suggest one of the following smooth moves.

First: bring a buddy and have a conversation near your potential date ensuring that she can hear your conversation. During the conversation, bring up some unique qualities about your potential date- be sure to mention how beautiful she is. After this go over, make a conversation, and with confidence why not ask her for a date.

Second: If this is not your style, try making eye contact from a distance. As it is said, eyes are the window to the soul, after getting her attention with a wink, go over and simply state your case i.e. “Hi, my name (your name here) would you like chat”.

Third: Lastly, in your quest to get the date try going to a place known to attract girls such as a dance studio, why not sign up for classes. Once the girls see you share their general interest make friends and like magic, you are dating material.

All in all you always want to put yourself in a position where you are going to have opportunities otherwise you will not give yourself a chance, furthermore you want to create opportunities that are going to be easy to take advantage of, If you do this you will take more action as a result build more confidence.

When you first got with your girl, she got with you because she had no other choice. She was hopelessly attracted to you, and probably respected you a whole lot more than she does now. It all boils down to her attraction level for you, and unfortunately us men have been conditioned by society to give up our power in a relationship gradually over time.

Once your power is gone, the attraction she had for you will fade, and the only way to get it back is to use certain psychological tricks to get her to feel the exact same feelings that she felt for you in the beginning of your relationship.

The key to sparking those same emotional triggers is by reigniting the spark of attraction.

Surprisingly, if you learn the secrets that almost no men know and use them to win your ex girl back, not only will she come back to you with little effort on your part; she will treat you like an absolute king when she does.

Fractionation is considered as a ‘dark art’ tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists.

Method Number Two – “Non-Verbal Communications”. It has been said that a man’s body language tells more about him than the actual things that he says. You see, the girl will feel attracted to you (or not) just by the way you carry yourself.

Maintain eye contact all the time – but don’t stare (it’s rude). When you talk to her, touch her (at non-sexual areas such as her hands, elbows and knees). Remember that touching breeds familiarity – as long as you do not overdo it.

Method Number Three – “Hypnosis”. Master seducers have been known to be able to make women want to sleep with them using hypnosis techniques in less than 15 minutes. One such technique is called ‘fractionation’. This should be used only as a last resort – and only if you have got no moral objections to the usage of ‘brute force‘ seduction techniques.

Guys, let’s face it – most of us are extremely poor when it comes to flirting with women. The biggest misconception when it comes to flirting and generating attraction is the belief that the skill is in the ‘genes’. That is not true at all. Men who are good flirts look ‘natural’, but they work hard in order to acquire the skills. Read on to discover three ways you can master the art of flirting and make girl get attracted to you without fail…

Three Surefire Flirting Methods You Must Know

Method Number One – “Supreme Self Confidence”. Everybody knows that women generally prefer confident guys – that is how they subconsciously pre-filter men. The danger here is that if you ‘fake’ your confidence too much then you might come across as cocky.

Therefore, it is important to ‘flaunt’ your confidence, but not coming across as over-confident, which is a sure attraction killer. Beware!

Display the gentleman in you-

Every girl would like to be leaning on the arm of a perfect gentleman whom she can trust. Just be sure not to be callous and deceive her. Be on your best behavior at all times. That will find her seeking your company more frequently. Show interest in the things she likes and also tell her about yourself. Discuss sensible topics, while not appearing boring and serious. Display a certain amount of flirtation while you pay sufficient attention too. She’ll enjoy whatever time she spends with you.

Display your chivalrous side-

If you’re in high school or college, make sure that she always finds you waiting round the corner for her. Carry her books while you walk along. And if you’re working make it a point to pick her up after work. Take her out for an ice-cream or a surprise dinner before dropping her home. But also make sure to formally invite her out sometimes. Do complement her about her dress and the colors that suit her. You’ll find her wearing the very colors you appreciated her in.

If you follow these simple tips you’ll receive enough indications that the girl of your dreams also likes you just as much as you like her.

Play it safe-

Do not push things too hard or the opportunity will slip away. Playing it safe is the surer way to winning her. Get noticed by the girl you crave. Hang around within reach. Behave with propriety and respect. Be jovial and humorous and not boisterous or rowdy. Greet girls with respect, especially your dream girl. Never poke fun at other girls in her presence else she’ll easily suspect it could be her some other time. This ‘best behavior’ attitude will win her heart and you’ll soon find her taking an interest in you.

How to get a girl interested in you? Well, this is a typical question that hovers in the minds of all young men. Guys get tongue tied and feel helpless when they confront or find themselves in the company of beautiful girls; they find it hard to make a favorable impression on girls or make their heads turn. When it comes to getting a girl interested in you, it is always best to be yourself as this helps in the long run. However that does not mean you make no efforts to make a girl go nuts for you. These simple steps will you create a curiosity and interest in you amongst the girls that interest you….

Other than dressing well and practicing good manners, there are other ways to get a girl to like you. Here are three easy ways to get a girl interested in you.

Girls like guys who posses sense of humor as they are assured of a few smiles and laughs in their presence. Trust me if you can get a girl to laugh her heart out on your jokes or comments she is surely going to be impressed by you. However, do not try too hard and crack obvious or silly jokes. Make her feel comfortable and do not solely depend on humor to keep her interested in you.

Further, you need to take notice of minute things concerning her. Pay attention when talking to her and let her know you are listening. Girls appreciate guys who can lend their ears without offering advice or suggestions, keep your opinions and suggestions to yourself till you know her well. She may be jabbering or speaking something that makes no sense to you but still give her a good listening. This will not only make her feel that you are a genuine guy but also help you learn more about her.

Treat her with respect and come across as a confident person. Show her the fun side of your personality. If the two of you share the same interests then you should speak on it or else stay away from contentious issues

Make her feel special and let your eyes show the warmth and honesty in you.